Floggers

Floggers As I stride seductively toward my wall of tools you can see Me pause once, the armoury is within reach. It’s time choose. My mind flashes over each implement and I carefully select one based on the person, the stage of the session, and the affinity I have for each tool. I have My favourites, […]

How To Measure For A Chastity Cage

Measuring For A Chastity Cage The cage will only be as good as your measurements It’s important to remember you don’t always need a cage to engage in self-denial, you just need some effort. In fact, the more complex a cage is the more problems can arise. While different fits will provide different experiences if […]

Feminism 5 0

Fifth-wave Feminism Helping everyone to move toward equality is a whole other level of manliness. Are you a man that only supports the idea of female supremacy when you’re horny? Or do you actually feel like women should have more power and a louder voice about things that affect them in general? Are all Dommes […]

How To Deal With Clandestine Disharmony

Disharmony In D/s & How To Fix It When you begin engaging the services of a sex worker, you understand there is a transaction for services rendered. That’s how it starts, over time you can build up a great, mutually beneficial relationship. Some of these secret relationships can go on for years, they can blossom […]

Online Submission

Digital D/S Though nothing can replace a highly charged, visceral dungeon session We do have to be thankful that we live in the rapidly expanding digital age. We have options, and I am determined to push online play to the edge. To get as close to the rush of real time as possible through a […]

Tik-Tok

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Shame on, you crazy Diamond.

Shame on, you crazy Diamond. Being a sex worker comes with a vast amount of stigma and shame Sadly, being a Dominatrix, being a sex worker comes with a vast amount of stigma and shame, that I do not consent to. I am accepting of who I am, and that acceptance is something I offer […]

Long-Term BDSM Relationships

Long-Term BDSM Relationships Misconceptions, and the key to success When we begin our kink journeys, we all hope to find someone we can share it all with, who is just as into the stuff you’re into, as you are.  One of the benefits of cultivating a meaningful D/s is a much deeper experience for both parties. Domme […]

Latex Care

Looking After Latex The Essential Guide To Latex Take care of what you love and it will love you back with interest. Latex is an investment for both sides of the dungeon divide so here I have created a quick guide to latex shopping, care, and protection. Take care of what you love and it […]