Investing

Investing in submission You’ve waited to do this, so do it well. Unless you are a kinkster, that is just looking for a hit of BDSM on an opportunistic basis, you should really take your time selecting the right Dominatrix. You’ve waited a long time to do this, another day of careful reading, cross-checking a […]

December to Remember

Make It A December to Remember When you were a kid, Christmas meant new toys! Such joy and expectation on Christmas Eve waiting for the big man to creep into your bedroom (how did this not get classified as stranger danger!!?) Life was full of surprises and that made everything exciting. But, as we know […]

Oedipus

Mommy Domme – Exploring the Oedipus Complex Daddy issues, (unresolved Electra complex as named by Freud) is a very common theme in the adult entertainment world. ‘Mommy issues’  and an. interest in Mommy Dommes are no less relevant or prevalent in the world of Femdom yet isn’t quite experiencing the same mainstream surge of interest […]

Waxplay

Twisted Fire Starter “It’s not only the adrenaline of the gentle heat or sometimes burn but the satisfactory peel off that I loved too” As a race we have been fascinated by fire since we first discovered it… it’s dangerous, it’s mesmerising. Who hasn’t found themselves lost in the glow of a fire? Or drawn […]

Naked Domination

What clothes, if any, should a Dominatrix wear? “Clothing and the lack of, is a powerful tool when establishing a power exchange… does this mean a naked Domme is less imposing? Less dominant?” If ever there was a title to divide the Pro-Domme world, it would be ‘Naked domination’! Let’s undress this controversial subject a […]

The First Kink

The First Kink Why I crave giving up control – Sub Stories I hear the sound of heels on the floor. I don’t turn to look, that much I’ve already been instructed on. I am to sit on the couch and wait until I’ve been told otherwise. My heart races as the footsteps approach and […]

Aftercare

Aftercare Minimise the physical & mental reverberations that echo on in the days that follow a session. I really hope the word “aftercare” isn’t unfamiliar to you. I truly hope you all find a Dominant or play partner that cares about you after a scene. However informal, or minimal, some acknowledgement of the sacrifice the […]

Booty call all you need to know about anal play

All About Anal Everything No One Tells You Preparation You’ll need to douche. It’s basic anal etiquette. Depending upon your anatomy, douching and enemas can actually be a kinky activity on its own. The pressure of this can press on your g-spot and make this chore feel extremely satisfying. Equipment Bulb Douches are fairly inexpensive way to […]

Pain and pleasure in a play-scene

Pain & Pleasure Understanding Pain in BDSM Pain is not just about body parts and nerve endings, it’s the output of the brain, the response that is designed to protect you. It’s not something that comes from the touch of the flogger itself, but the neurological sequence of events that lead up to that very […]

Play safe in bdsm

Safety in BDSM Whether you are planning to engage in BDSM games with a professional or a lifestyle partner, safety should come up in conversation before the first strike lands, or lock clicks. Personal responsibility and communication is vitally important in a fulfilling D/s. With a professional, the conversation will possibly be more formal, but […]