Waxplay
Twisted Fire Starter “It’s not only the adrenaline of the gentle heat or sometimes burn but the satisfactory peel off that I loved too” As a race we have been fascinated by fire since we first discovered it… it’s dangerous, it’s mesmerising. Who hasn’t found themselves lost in the glow of a fire? Or drawn […]
Naked Domination
What clothes, if any, should a Dominatrix wear? “Clothing and the lack of, is a powerful tool when establishing a power exchange… does this mean a naked Domme is less imposing? Less dominant?” If ever there was a title to divide the Pro-Domme world, it would be ‘Naked domination’! Let’s undress this controversial subject a […]
The First Kink
The First Kink Why I crave giving up control – Sub Stories I hear the sound of heels on the floor. I don’t turn to look, that much I’ve already been instructed on. I am to sit on the couch and wait until I’ve been told otherwise. My heart races as the footsteps approach and […]
Aftercare
Aftercare Minimise the physical & mental reverberations that echo on in the days that follow a session. I really hope the word “aftercare” isn’t unfamiliar to you. I truly hope you all find a Dominant or play partner that cares about you after a scene. However informal, or minimal, some acknowledgement of the sacrifice the […]
Booty call all you need to know about anal play
All About Anal Everything No One Tells You Preparation You’ll need to douche. It’s basic anal etiquette. Depending upon your anatomy, douching and enemas can actually be a kinky activity on its own. The pressure of this can press on your g-spot and make this chore feel extremely satisfying. Equipment Bulb Douches are fairly inexpensive way to […]
Pain and pleasure in a play-scene
Pain & Pleasure Understanding Pain in BDSM Pain is not just about body parts and nerve endings, it’s the output of the brain, the response that is designed to protect you. It’s not something that comes from the touch of the flogger itself, but the neurological sequence of events that lead up to that very […]
Play safe in bdsm
Safety in BDSM Whether you are planning to engage in BDSM games with a professional or a lifestyle partner, safety should come up in conversation before the first strike lands, or lock clicks. Personal responsibility and communication is vitally important in a fulfilling D/s. With a professional, the conversation will possibly be more formal, but […]
Latex History
Latex – Origins, History & Fashion From Heroin Production to Haute Couture Latex is a milky fluid, which can be found in around a tenth of the world’s plants. Technically, it’s polymer micro-particles suspended in water that plants use as a defence mechanism against insects. Originally named ‘caoutchouc’ by indigenous Equatorial tribes, they began cultivating […]
Anticipation & Reality
Anticipation V’s Reality The journey is the real pleasure It could take someone years of anticipation before they are ready to act on their kinky urges. That gives them a lot of time to get right into the details of it, to reimagine it, to over think it, and it’s that last bit that can […]
Sub & Domme Drop
Sub & Domme Drop Yes, Dommes can get down too! An experienced and gifted dominant will be able to dance that fine line between the extremes and give you the masochistic thrills you seek. Pleasure / Pain and Agony / Ecstasy I can make these blur to such an extent, that there will be moments […]