Booty Call? All You Need to Know About Anal Play

There is so much to get through, butt… let’s start at the start.

“It’s basic kinky etiquette to consider your partner in the chosen activity and scene”

Anal Play: Preparation

This is the step that no one shows you in porn. Don’t just go diving into an arse. Or do… but don’t say I didn’t warn you.

Douching is what you do, when you want the “giver” to have a nice time too. Then they might even do it again, and again.

It’s basic kinky etiquette to consider your partner in the chosen activity and scene. Never is this more important than with anal play. I can tell if someone has tried (or not) or if someone has rushed it. The last thing either of us wants is for a session to end before it’s even begun.

Research douching and enemas, it can actually be a kinky activity on its own, to feel the water flooding in, filling you up. The pressure of this can press on your g-spot and make this chore feel extremely satisfying.

  • Douches are not expensive (around £18) so treat yourself!
  • Make sure you do it after a bowel movement but before more food.
  • Make sure the douche is cleaned before / after each use in antibacterial cleansing solution.
  • Get the nozzle lubed up
  • Lay down on your back – knees-up
  • Don’t overfill or use too hot or too cold water.
All you Need to Know about Anal Play

“It takes patience and practice”

All you Need to Know about Anal Play

Anal Play: Anal Training

This is a muscle you are playing with and it needs to be trained to loosen and expand.

Consider having butt plugs at home. Start small, but buy a range of medium sizes to work up to. It’s good to have anal ambitions.

Use these toys regularly to plug up and make sure any progress you make isn’t lost before your next pegging session.

Butt plugs are essential to orgasmic anal fun, they not only keep that hole stretched but they get you used to the sensation of being spread open and invaded. Without this training between sessions, what happens is you return to me, and the shock causes you to constrict that muscle. If you don’t have the privacy or opportunity to regularly plug, there are relaxants you can use instead.

It takes patience and practice to get the big dicks up there, those toys take a lot of work on both ends.

Range of toys- There is a whole new world up there for the anal adventurers – find what works for you:

  • Anal beads
  • Tailed butt plugs
  • Jewelled plugs
  • Inflatable toys
  • Hollow butt plugs
  • Expanding butt plugs
  • Vibrating / Electro plugs
  • Gspot / prostate massager
 

With all of these – start slowly, splurge the lube, and stop if something hurts. The Prostate massager is a good one to have in your kit because it will relax that area and allow for more to follow. The inflatables are also good for beginners because they are soft and gradual.

“Soon you’ll be addicted to anal… thank me later.”

Playing alone or together?

If you have another pair of hands you can be pegged and toyed with by a butt hungry Top.

If it is a dickless Top like me, so much the better we have a range of attachments, not just the standard-issue dick the guys get. Pegging is so popular and it’s not hard to see why. The Male Gspot is like the Las Vegas of human hotspots. There will be fireworks and everything else will seem a bit average for a while afterwards.

If you are all alone, you just have more work to do. But you get to be totally selfish and can chose what goes in next and for how long. Many dildos have suction cups so you can literally go fuck yourself.

If you have a spare few hundred quid you can always get yourself a fucking machine and turn your self into the anal whore you always wanted to be.

Most important word to remember here chaps – LUBE. Soon you’ll be addicted to anal… thank me later.

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