Just know your levels, and know your kink. Do some research, or book time with me to discuss something that interests you, that maybe you don’t yet understand. Then we can move on to a live webcam session. And I can guide you through the new hunger that is growing inside you, and bring these fantasies to life. BDSM utopia requires patience, and honestly most don’t have it. Which is why when I do find it in a play partner, its rarity is part of the rush. Because I feed off your submission, it is like fuel to my fire. While much is being discussed about how subs, slaves and bottoms are struggling without their anchoring dominant, I want to talk about how we, as Tops, are also adrift without our subtoys to play with. However much you may feel deprived at the moment. Spare a thought for your Domme? She is aching for the rush of gifted subservience. A good dungeon session leaves us floating for hours after. Glowing in all our sadistic glory. I have often walked home through the streets feeling like I have just changed someone’s life. Knowing I have just transformed how they see the world, it’s nothing short of epic what I can do for you. That’s where the high comes from, not from hurting people. The delicious Domme space is a result of knowing I have performed a modern day miracle. What I can get you to do, to push you into a place where everything else falls away. It’s the best feeling. Then, on days like this, when you are fully attuned to me, to the session, and surrender to the experience with a Domme you trust, you can achieve subspace. Each of our respective “space places” are different. It should at its core be a feeling of intense positivity. Like suddenly everything is amazing, it’s a high but without the nasty side effect of drugs. However, much like drugs it has a come-down that we describe as “sub-drop”. Conversely we get “Domme drop”. And it is like a sudden sinking feeling. Back to reality and it is not pleasant.