A Session Review
Poppers
Poppers & BDSM All you need to know about poppers Remember: There are no safe drugs “I only ever want to play with a submissive who offers their true self.” Submit If you are considering introducing poppers to your kinky play, take a moment to read this before diving in. Here are some basics to […]
Bdsm Basics
What is BDSM? Bondage, discipline (or domination), sadism (or submission), masochism BDSM is a sexual activity that involves, for example, tying a partner up, games in which one partner controls another, or giving and receiving pain for pleasure.Activities in BDSM are often characterized by the participants’ taking on roles that involve inequality of power. Words […]
No Limits
“I don’t have any limits, Miss!” Self-exploration with an open mind is key to creating a scene in which we both feel safe. How can you possibly consent to everything I could potentially do to you, when you haven’t gotten to know me yet? If you decided to skydive, you wouldn’t skip the safety video, […]
3 in the bed you your partner the kinks you wont tell them about
Three in the bed You, your partner & the kinks they don’t know you’re into No matter what stage of your relationship, dating, long-term or fully committed, sharing your innermost taboo secrets with someone will seem like the most nerve-wracking thing in the world. But what if I told you the conversation could open you […]
Giving to receive or just giving
BDSM Etiquette – Gift Giving Everyone loves being spoiled but with your Domme, the stakes are a little higher. have put together an invaluable little list of ways to gift your Domme, and just as importantly – how not to. I know this makes us sound high maintenance… that’s because we are! But this is […]
5 Reasons Why Your D/s Relationship Is Failing
And How To Save It It’s sad that I not only lose subs from time to time, but that I hear about it over and over from my Domme friends. Finding your perfect play partner is such a miracle, the amount of effort you put into finding a Dominant, the hours of searching. To find […]
Weakness
Is Submission A Weakness? BDSM still has far too many aspects that are misunderstood There are parts of the Dominatrix community that conflate ‘loser’ with ‘submissive’. Addressing someone that is submissive as ‘weak’ or a ‘pathetic loser’ outside of a consented humiliation session is ignorant. “Kink is a celebration of the strongest but most subverted […]
Foot Fetish
Foot Fetish Are you always looking down? Are you always looking down? The one who I catch catching a glimpse in Tesco. Only you’re so busy you don’t see my knowing smile. I see you, I get you. I love to tease you. What struck you? Was it just my confidence in general that made […]
Clients
BDSM Online Can you *really* experience BDSM online? Social media and online communications have enhanced the ability establish meaningful relationships online, and this includes meaningful BDSM relationships. But for a long time, there has been a debate about whether these online connections can truly provide an authentic human connection. Of course, face-to-face interactions are better, […]