Dynamics, Manners & Ethics

Shedding light on BDSM's frequently obscured dynamics, manners, and ethics.

Since 2019, Countess Diamond has carefully recorded and shared her experiences and guidance as a Dominatrix to an ever-growing readership. Navigating the frequently subjective and intricate complexities of the fetish and kink world. The aim of the blog is to educate those who both work and play in BDSM and to help de-stigmatize consensual erotic labour.

What is Subspace?

This neurochemical high can vary in intensity and duration. All BDSM players need to be aware of how to move forward, without a chemical crash.

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Instead of accepting, supporting and helping their creators grow, they are locking down and shutting the gates without warning.

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