Why Meet With A Dominatrix?

To set your true self free.

That part of you that you’ve kept hidden for so long. That secret you just can’t share. The part you don’t think anyone else would ever understand. Because it’s so wrong and so dirty!

Except of course, you’re not that special. There are literally thousands like you, millions. All feeling equally isolated and abnormal. When you come to play with me, real-time or on-line, I will coax out the dark side of your sexual interests, and make them contentedly purr at my feet. I have met many people who have struggled with the need for kink, and I can tell you this. The more you try to deny it, and ignore it. The louder and more filthy it gets. 

You are fighting the inevitable here. But when you let go, in the arms of an ethical dominant, you will experience a freedom that you have waited for your whole life. It can be an unexpectedly emotional thing. As mentioned those inner desires, they gain momentum when you try to subdue them. So when you finally get a chance to let them out, they are still running at 100 mph. You’ll want to dive in at the deep end. But don’t. 

A caring, sensual Domme

I will protect you as fiercly as I destroy you

Please listen to my years of experience, take it slow. It’s like being given a gourmet meal and wolfing it down. You would miss all the smells, flavours and visuals if you rushed it. BDSM is about the subtleties just as much as the fundamentals.

It sounds contradictory, but if you look at the rubberists, who love to dress in rubber. It isn’t about that end goal, it’s about the process: Browsing the wardrobe, the smell of it, then putting it on is erotic, shining it up, and then the curves being illuminated in a way that makes you feel sexually transformed. Treat this as a journey. For some just talking, giving voice to thoughts that had been swirling for so long is a huge step. That is a thrill in itself. Enjoy that moment with me on a call to start with. Then we could move on to a webcam session, where I can see you. And you can see me, in all my dominant glory. 

For some, that will be enough. As with many sexual fantasies, the idea is enough. The reality is too much. For others, now will be the moment to leap. You will book, then debate not showing up, think about turning around as you approach my door. Some of the brave boys and girls will actually make it to my play-space. And from there it is an endless horizon of mind blowing realness.

Cerebral & Playful

You will instinctively know if I am the right Domme for you.

The way I play is all about “real”. Whether on-line or in person. I am a dominant woman, revelling in her power and beauty. I am not a carbon copy Domme, I make no attempt to imitate the others offering these services. What you get with me, is no act. I want to enslave your body and own your soul. I don’t think that’s too much to ask! I won’t always look like a latex clad stereotype. I can break you just as easily in my everyday clothes, and trainers. Any authentic Domme has this talent, it is an innate skill that doesn’t require me to pretend. This is who I am.

I am allowing you the privilege and opportunity to be part of my journey through tributed sessions. If you want to submit to me, you better be prepared to show up with the same openness about your wants, needs and desires. I need you to be transparent about your thought processes at all times. If you let me inside your head, I will be a caring, sensual Domme that will protect you just as fiercly as I destroy you.

Fetish Connection

How screens are changing the accessibility of kink.

My Top 5 Kinks

Take a look at what turns me on and see if our interests match.

During & After

Have you ever wondered what happens when we session?