Rules to serve by
Pleasing the Countess isn't an easy job, but it is a very rewarding one.
Owned boys MUST serve a purpose and follow the rules or risk being swiftly dismissed. Rules are not set to be ignored and tasks are not given to be done poorly. Gaining and retaining the attention, respect, adoration of your intended Mistress will never be easy, however, it is not impossible.
Lifestyle expectations and commitments of an owned submissive.
MIND: Dedicate yourself to working towards finding happiness at home, work and in submission. Your success here will be celebrated.
BODY: Eat one portion of leafy green vegetables per day and drink lots of water. It is your job to look and feel good for Her. Exercise is vital in maintaining a healthy body and mind. The Countess requires you to be locked in chastity and commit your entire sexual pleasure to Her. Marital commitments are respected.
SOUL: Be open to your submissive desires, truthful about your feelings and honest about your abilities. Don’t let complacency, jealousy or negativity grow; instead address the cause. Accept the things you have control over, disregard the rest.
IN PERSON REPRESENTATION: Always address Her as Countess. Always remain presentable and smelling good. Be considerate of others in social and work situations remembering eye contact, introductions and manners. Respect differing opinions and always ask others what they think. Unless instructed, never be seated while a woman stands.
DIGITAL REPRESENTATION: Retweet and comment on all twitter posts as and when applicable. Always maintain a high level of social engagement on AVN. Your online image is a reflection upon the Countess and She will not tolerate cruelty or injustice to others.
DIGITAL COMMUNICATION: Avoid idle digital chit-chat such as “How is your day” and “how did you sleep”. The Countess has a busy life and cannot message you every morning, noon and night. If you wish to have a personal 1-1 catch up, you must book a 1-1 Skype, session, dinner or shopping date. On a pre-scheduled Skype call, always present yourself on your knees.
MOBILE COMMUNICATION: If you are lucky enough to be provided the Countess’ private number, DO NOT Call / Message / WhatsApp unless its considered vitally important. Exceptions to this rule are by express permission and while you are personally serving the Countess or meeting Her somewhere.
GENERAL: Always under promise and over deliver. Always keep open and honest communication. All tasks must be completed by the agreed date. Pensive meditations, theory or research tasks must be completed in silence.
PUNISHMENTS: Will be gratefully received.
MISCELLANEOUS: Never get complacent or take her time for granted. Never ask a question that can be answered by simply googling.
General guidance and further reading for those seeking ANY interaction from the Countess.
Her time is precious and she is not simply available. Any free time she has is spent upon Herself, Her family and Her owned boys. Anyone wishing to approach the Countess must do so via a subscription to AVN. This is Her main platform for communicating with Her boys who gladly pay the subscription fee as a marker of their respect and their position as Her servants. If this is something you feel you cannot do, consider reading Her blog Investing or, quite simply, move on elsewhere if you do not value Her time.
As the D/s evolves over time, things can and will change. It’s part of the process, where a sub starts with me and where they finish is often so different, it’s kind of mind blowing.
But some changes can be detrimental to the D/s dynamic that you’ve worked so hard to create.
You start off knowing theres something you want. The perfect scene with the the perfect partner, all the details are there. The lighting is just right, the temperature is unnoticeable because it’s just perfect. There is no noise, no distractions. In fact, these outside influences don’t even cross your mind – its your fantasy. Why would you care that the number 10 bus is loading its passengers at the stop across the road because you chose to have your fantasy at 3:45 on a Tuesday? Because time doesn’t exists in fantasyland.
It takes so much strength of character to step over the line, past the point of no return into my dominion. It takes a combination of mental and physical strength to endure me, but that’s what you wanted, that’s what has been clawing at you from the inside all this time. The need to suffer at the hands of a beautiful Dominatrix has been swirling for so long, and you have battled yourself to take the first step. I appreciate all of this. I see and hear about it often. It can be overwhelming to give a voice to all those thoughts and fantasy scenarios that have kept you awake night after night.
It’s basic kinky etiquette to consider your partner in the chosen activity and scene. Never is this more important than with anal play. I can tell if someone has tried (or not) or if someone has rushed it. The last thing either of us wants is for a session to end before it’s even begun.
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