Is Findom the Ultimate Sacrifice?
I believe it is. It’s like pure, distilled devotion. It’s like you are laying cards on to the table, spilling your wallet at the same time as your heart and pouring the proof of your soul out at my feet. You feel emptied, lighter, satisfied while I feel strong jolt of top space, owning you in this way is a very powerful rush for me.
I expect you to endure as much as you can to please me while I tease and test your limits and bring myself endless pleasure. But, to entirely surrender to the experience, you have to trust me. Playing in the world of findom requires a significant amount of respect on both sides, so even as we go through the process of unwinding your mind your emotional and financial limits will always be respected. The same is true in any real time or digital Femdom scene with a professional. Submission is about control, and the loss of it. How far we take that depends on our joint boundaries and dynamic
Once you step away from falsehoods, cruelty and greed you realise that Findom can be a safe environment that is more about the total control than the total money, and the penny starts to drop.
The hit / the rush / the high of being controlled and overwhelmed by giving pleasure will all be there as I coax you to add another zero and click ‘send’. Better yet, walk with me through the stores as we shop for expensive gifts to make me smile. You’ll experience first-hand the waves of pleasure you’ll get when I squeal with delight at our shopping choices, as we take in the beauty of the style, design or story behind what you have just bought for me.
Findom can take on many forms, many men are desperate to have their income managed, and as long as limits are set at the start, this can offer him a freedom he has never felt before. Having someone else make all your spending decisions, decide what you may eat… if you eat, is the financial equivalent of a good hard kick in the balls. It can floor you, but you love it, crave it, thrive on the rush of my smiles.
Sending money cuts out the middleman and glosses over any complicated methods or expectations. You can wake up press send and immediately get a hard-wired hit of financial fear coursing through your veins. By sending a large tribute to start the day it will motivate you to work much harder at work to earn it back or earn towards the next tribute. Even with a small tribute you’ll feel a rush that started out as panic but has now become excitement. I will receive it and know you are devoted enough to go without, to work harder and smarter, to give up everything for my comfort and happiness.
There are many subsmissive men that say they would do anything to serve me, most actually wouldn’t – talk is cheap. Instead demonstrate the sacrifices you are prepared to make, follow my guidance, and reward the time I invest in enhancing your life through my acceptance, patience and dominance.
I want you to push yourself to achieve bigger things, I want to share your wins with you, celebrate successes and toast to your results.
I want your ultimate submission. To take a step closer to Findom, you can tribute me directly here. Or take a peek at my Clips4Sale and AVN, request customs, or you can interact with my Twitter posts.
re we have to keep in mind, that’s what you are really paying for. That while you think we are lost in that moment with you, we aren’t. We’re watching the rise and fall of your chest, moving our hands to feel that tightness of your collar. We are “ON” all the time, but the skill comes in appearing “OFF”.
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