Necessity is the Mother of Invention
This is particularly true at the moment, with everyone trying to find ways to mimic the things we miss in the real world. While you are housebound, you may be tempted to contact me for some online BDSM play.

But in those moments, before all the blood leaves your brain and heads south, you may decide against it because you lack any equipment at home. It doesn’t matter how much kit she has, you have nothing. Ordinarily, you don’t need kit because you might be one of the lucky ones that visit’s the Dominatrix at her well equipped dungeon. She’ll have cuffs, restraints, gags, hoods, clamps, spikes, weights and toys. How can she possibly dominate you without the usual array of torturous tools?
Well, you will find that what makes a Professional Domme excel in her industry is not how much kit she has, it is her intangible skill set. The passion she has for pain, the excitement she can create with one simple tool. An exceptional Domme can do a lot with very little.
That said, she can’t deliver this all on her own. If you are going to book an online webcam/skype session for deviant sub training, you need to be prepared to work for it.
Most households have items laying around that can be turned into kinky tools of torture. So before your scheduled call go on a treasure hunt see if you can find any of the following items. Aim for at least 3 of these:
Pegs
Binder (bulldog) clamps
Elastic bands
String / rope
Hosiery
Wooden spoon
Wax strips
Deep heat
Bar of soap
Ice cubes
We can use pegs to bite into your nipples, bulldog clips if you have them are even better.
Wooden spoon is a useful all rounder. You can spank yourself, your balls or your hands with this.
Or if you have a habit of talking dirty we can put that soap to good use. Hosiery works well for tying up the balls, creating cock rings that cut off the blood supply and make your balls go past blue, they’ll be swollen purple lumps if you try really hard.
Wax strips are self explanatory, but please let me put my wine down, before you begin, I’d hate to spill any laughing too hard at your uncontrollable agony. And remember it only stops, when I say so.
We need to put your dirty mind to good use for once! What can you come up to do to yourself, for my amusement? You have to hurt yourself for me, because I can’t. But I miss it, and this will make me happy. Being trapped at home should never be a barrier, any time you are unable to get to see me at the dungeon, we can improvise. We’ll find ways to combine items and layer up the pain, while I recline with a glass of wine.
Book a Skype call with me here, show me what you got and I might show you my smile.
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If you’re not ready to take the leap but want to see what the fuss is all about, head to Clips4Sale to view some naughty point of view clips. If you wish to discuss a specific clip idea please read through my customs page before making contact.
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