Chastity Tips & Tricks

All the tips and tricks, collated over the years from industry experts, Mistresses and well practiced locked servants.

The First Few Days

You’re keen to experience the thrills of chastity. To avoid disappointment you’ll need to control your excitement. Begin with wearing your chastity cage for 10 minutes and see how things feel, slowly increase your time in the cage. There’s no doubt you’ll experience discomfort in the early days, but at no point should you experience physical pain. If this happens remove the chastity cage.

Don’t sleep in the cage until you’re completely at ease with it. If you develop red or inflamed skin – remove the cage until the symptoms ease, this could be a sign of a pressure sore. If you experience a change in skin tone – remove the cage, as this could be a sign of restricted blood flow. 

Ultimately wearing a cage is at-your-own-risk. My advice would always be to remove it at the first moment that you feel any pinching or rubbing.

Find your place in My world

You have a deep sexual need for submission to a Dominant Woman that won’t fade and despite your best efforts, it has taken root in your mind. It swirls around in your head after dark and somehow, it’s led you here. To Me. 

Maintenance and Keys

Sometimes metal locks can get a bit stiff, or worse break (I’m looking at you Jeeves!) Keep them lubricated and keep an eye out for any rusting, cracks, or dents.

Cheaper 3D printed cages tend to have small print marks or lines, the best way to tackle these is with some super fine sandpaper. Bear in mind that the imperfections in the cage’s surface may be a breeding ground for bacteria. A genuine KINK3D printed cage is made with technology that gives it a smooth surface, which is why I always recommend them. Some resin cages will go soft at temperatures above 70c. If a little adjustment is needed you can submerge your cage in hot water for 20 seconds at a time.

Long Term Success

Having the someone hold your key, someone who will keep you in check and accountable is always going to be a great way to stay locked. Be sure you’ve chosen your intended key holder well. Read their website and get to know their style to be sure they are the one for you.

Body Hair

Body hair is a natural moisture balancer, remove it with a close shave or wax treatment and you’re going to begin to feel the cage rub! The best option is a neat trim, keeping any long hairs for getting caught while still providing the all important moisture wicking.

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