My personal rules and regulations.
Every Domme is different and will require her chastity subs to fit her lifestyle and approach. My key holding tribute is £50 a week or £150 a month to encourage longer term chastity. If you are a regular real-time sessioning submissive I will hold your key. If you are serving online and I feel you cannot be trusted, I request that you wear a numerical lock.
You can remove the device twice a week for hygiene and maintenance – after which you have to send me a photo of the device with the new numbered lock while holding a piece of paper with unique password. Depending upon your behaviour, attitude and mutually agreed personal preferences you may be given spot checks, tasks or games or a JOI task every week.
All about the cages
There are so many to choose from on places like from Amazon, but I recommend you visit KINKPLAY for toys and cages. (Discount code: countessdiamond2020) They have a huge selection (see here) and can help with sizing and how to use a cage which is always an important thing to get right. Most begin with the silicone ones, these are ideal for short term wear and getting used to the idea of confinement. These are also cheaper and help you find the right shape and size, for just enough pinch and squeeze.
Then the metal ones, are where it starts to get serious and you can even stop up a level with a urethral cage . And now we have the remote devices like Cellmate, which allows her to control your twitchy cock via an app. You will feel utterly hopeless but incredibly grateful to have the chastity device, knowing a superior female controls all your unhelpful male compulsions. You can relax knowing all those problems your dick usually causes are no longer an issue.
Chastity for Complete Beginners
Chastity is quite the leap, and certainly not something to run into. I like to ease keen beginners into chastity through a slow training program. Starting with mental abstinence – to build trust and self control. This is entirely on you, with no investment other than your own dedication required. Increasingly these agreed spells of mental chastity become longer, but we will always begin at 24 hours. Then progress at a rate that suits us both.
Chastity doesn’t mean your life must completely change forever, or that your freedoms end, if anything this may be the start of a journey that for once, doesn’t require endless frustrations and feelings of arousal – because there’s nothing you can do. After a trial, You may decide it’s not for you, or just playing sometimes when you feel like it is for you. However, I would adore having to lock you when you misbehave and become too male, too sexually needy.
To take a step closer to living a locked life with me by your side we can discuss your future through AVN Stars. Or for something at the very beginner stage, you can buy my chastity clips on Clips4Sale. If you wish to discuss a specific chastity clip please read through my customs page before making contact.
Locktober - Chastity Challenge
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