Dynamics, Manners & Ethics
Shedding light on BDSM's frequently obscured dynamics, manners, and ethics.
Since 2019, Countess Diamond has carefully recorded and shared her experiences and guidance as a Dominatrix to an ever-growing readership. Navigating the frequently subjective and intricate complexities of the fetish and kink world. The aim of the blog is to educate those who both work and play in BDSM and to help de-stigmatize consensual erotic labour.
Denim
Many of us with kinks spend the early part of our lives feeling bad or wrong or broken. But we are none of those things. I suspect that most people,
A Lion’s Tale
Happiness isn’t always going to find you, sometimes you’ve got to work for it.
Safety in BDSM
Personal responsibility and communication is vitally important in a fulfilling D/s.
Wax Play
As a race we have been fascinated by fire since we first discovered it… it’s dangerous, it’s mesmerising. Who hasn’t found themselves lost in the glow of a fire? Or
Mommy Issues- Exploring the Oedipus complex.
Much like a mother, I try to keep you safe and control your negative behaviours. Offering reassurance and stern levels of care, I am often a guide and looked to
Make It A December To Remember
When you were a kid, Christmas meant new toys! Such joy and expectation on Christmas Eve. waiting for the big man to creep into your bedroom (how did this not
Smoking Fetish
A villainess like me, with a flagrant disrespect for rules, that deliberately kicks against gender stereotypes and roles – hell yeah I smoke. A cigarette suggests an impervious layer of
Ownership and Rules
Being owned by a Dominatrix isn’t an easy job, but is a very rewarding one.
My Top 5 kinks
His physical suffering at my hand is my ultimate turn on. My aim is good, but I’d rather administer pain with my body somehow, than with an object.
Pain and pleasure
Pain is not just about body parts and nerve endings, it’s the output of the brain, the response that is designed to protect you.
5 reasons why
As the D/s relationship evolves, things can and will change. It’s part of the process.
Anticipation V’s Reality
You start off knowing theres something you want. The perfect scene with the the perfect partner, all the details are there.
Foot Fetish
As far as fetishes go, a sexual interest in feet is becoming more mainstream, and from what I hear it often leads you down the tunnel to further kinks.
Your First BDSM Session
Advice for approaching your first BDSM session with the Dominatrix Countess Diamond.
