Dynamics, Manners & Ethics
Shedding light on BDSM's frequently obscured dynamics, manners, and ethics.
Since 2019, Countess Diamond has carefully recorded and shared her experiences and guidance as a Dominatrix to an ever-growing readership. Navigating the frequently subjective and intricate complexities of the fetish and kink world. The aim of the blog is to educate those who both work and play in BDSM and to help de-stigmatize consensual erotic labour.
Feminism 5.0
Are you a man that only supports the idea of female supremacy when you’re horny?
Locktober – Roundup
I want nothing more than to see you achieve great things, have willpower, have strength and conviction!
Gross Chastity Side Effects
Chastity isn’t always fun and easy! Here are some of the grossest and weirdest side effects you could experience while locked in chastity.
What is BDSM
The BDSM community can seem alien when you first encounter it, but all it takes is a little patience and some basic research.
No Limits
Self-exploration with an open mind is key to creating a scene in which we both feel safe.
Why Chastity?
To put it simply; it’s a power exchange. Imagine handing over control of something that’s so intrinsic to your identity, routine, and freedom.
Three in the bed
Before you even attempt this potentially sex life changing conversation, you will want to be prepared. If you have read my other blogs you will know the importance of researching
BDSM Etiquette – Gift Giving
An invaluable guide to gifting your Domme, and just as importantly – how not to.
Long-Term BDSM relationships
When we begin our kink journeys, we all hope to find someone we can share it all with, who is just as into the stuff you’re into, as you are.
Blackmail and home wrecking
Exposure, ruination, home wreaking and blackmail. Some submissives invite this, they crave it.
Disharmony In D/s
When you begin engaging the services of a sex worker, you understand there is a transaction for services rendered. That’s how it starts, over time you can build up a
Zelophilia
Zelophilia is the name for sexual arousal arising from feelings of jealousy. Jealousy is an incendiary emotion. It feels like a grenade, but for those with a cuck fantasy, they
Shame on, you crazy Diamond.
Shame works so well in a BDSM play scene. The place where all dirty, shunned and taboo activities are allowed to breathe and be celebrated, insults add a finishing touch
Naked Domination
Clothing and the lack of, is a powerful tool when establishing a power exchange… does this mean a naked Domme is less imposing? Less dominant?
The Office Role Play
A BDSM office role play doesnt take much imagination. A well-known hotbed of illicit affairs, with a hierarchy pre-installed, the power dynamic of an office role play is all set
