Dynamics, Manners & Ethics

Shedding light on BDSM's frequently obscured dynamics, manners, and ethics.

Since 2019, Countess Diamond has carefully recorded and shared her experiences and guidance as a Dominatrix to an ever-growing readership. Navigating the frequently subjective and intricate complexities of the fetish and kink world. The aim of the blog is to educate those who both work and play in BDSM and to help de-stigmatize consensual erotic labour.

What is BDSM

The BDSM community can seem alien when you first encounter it, but all it takes is a little patience and some basic research.

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Why Chastity?

To put it simply; it’s a power exchange. Imagine handing over control of something that’s so intrinsic to your identity, routine, and freedom.

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Three in the bed

Before you even attempt this potentially sex life changing conversation, you will want to be prepared. If you have read my other blogs you will know the importance of researching

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Disharmony In D/s

When you begin engaging the services of a sex worker, you understand there is a transaction for services rendered. That’s how it starts, over time you can build up a

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Zelophilia

Zelophilia is the name for sexual arousal arising from feelings of jealousy. Jealousy is an incendiary emotion. It feels like a grenade, but for those with a cuck fantasy, they

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Naked Domination

Clothing and the lack of, is a powerful tool when establishing a power exchange… does this mean a naked Domme is less imposing? Less dominant?

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The Office Role Play

A BDSM office role play doesnt take much imagination. A well-known hotbed of illicit affairs, with a hierarchy pre-installed, the power dynamic of an office role play is all set

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Denim

Many of us with kinks spend the early part of our lives feeling bad or wrong or broken. But we are none of those things. I suspect that most people,

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