BDSM blog

Thoughts on BDSM, fetish and... ethics.

The Countess offers her thoughts on BDSM, fetish, dominant and submissive relationships… as well as ethics and chastity.

“Part of being me is a need to champion things I believe in. To get the word out there and discuss the larger meaning of our existence, our wants and our desires in a thoughtful, practical way. Devoid of stereotypes, condemnation and judgement.

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Chastity

Chastity Keyholding

Chastity is next level submission, but the pleasure of denial is well with the effort. Countess diamond is an experienced and knowledgeable chastity keyholder.

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D/s

Giving to receive or just giving?

ALL women love being spoiled from time to time, but when it’s a Domme, the stakes are a little higher. I have put together an invaluable little list of ways to gift your Domme, and just as importantly – how not to.

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All My Thoughts

The most read and shared BDSM blogs from Bristols top BDSM Mistress, Countess Diamond. 

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What clients took for granted

I have realised that my clients have come to understand the positive value of the interactions they previously took for granted, that they used to get so much joy from, the important people they used to share these experiences with. We have collectively realised how we affect those around us, both positively and negatively, biologically and physiologically. It will feel amazing when they can go and see a provider again, and this time they say they will savour every moment, every detail.

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Luscious Latex Lovers

Latex and BDSM go hand in shiny hand, it is a visual and sensual treat for so many of us. The smell of rubber itself is extremely provocative. It can cause a raging hard on, as can the touch of it. There is something about this material that works so well with the dungeon scene and the kink parties, its like a layer of us that we can apply or peel off, as we switch between the two worlds. But latex is as sensitive, exasperating and difficult at times as your Mistress can be.

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Investing

Pushing her boundaries – Thinking that because you get on so well, you can message her when you feel like it, for free. That she’d want to hang out, go get a coffee … for free. That you basically begin to encroach on her personal time. You have made the fatal mistake of forgetting she is a service provider and has a life that she wants to keep separate from this. But because she is so good at her job, she’s made you feel special – you are starting to believe you should get special treatment. Sadly, you just sealed your own fate.

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Birthday

My Birthday

It would be a shame not to celebrate My birthday in style, especially as the world continues to be one step away from the credits rolling on its own disaster movie.

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Latex care

Take care of what you love and it will love you back with interest. Latex is an investment for both both sides of the dungeon divide so here I have created a quick guide to the care and protection of this lush shiny stuff I call home. 

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Findom

I expect you to endure as much as you can to please me while I tease and test your limits and bring myself endless pleasure.

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Skype

Necessity is the Mother of Invention

This is particularly true at the moment, with everyone trying to find ways to mimic the things we miss in the real world. While you are housebound, you may be tempted to contact me for some online BDSM play. 

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Taboo

Taboo

Taboos are any sexual preferences or activities that have been demonised and shunned through mainstream media, society, and sexual norms. So it’s unsurprising so many still remain “off limits” in many relationships, which only makes them more appealing to those that are bored shitless of bedroom basics.

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Chastity

Chastity

There’s submission to your Domme, then there is total surrender to your Domme.

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Truth

The best thing about BDSM in a professional setting, is that you should be able to finally set your true self free.

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Online

Evolving our Digital D/S

We do have to be thankful that we live in the rapidly expanding digital age. We have options, and I am determined to push online play to the edge.

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Filming

Filming with Mistress Tess!

The incredible Mistress Tess and I are planning some filming in March. Tess and I are looking for reliable boys who are interested in taking their limits further than they thought possible.

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Filming

Filming slaves needed.

@MissNeraSkye and I will be back in London and shooting for the prestigious @hoxtondommes at the @DungeonSuite in Hoxton on the 30th of January 2020.

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All I want for Christmas is… Latex!

I have always had a love of latex, it’s everything! 

It’s the way that it feels on my body, the way it heats and cools and hugs me close. I wear it round the house a lot and would happily wear it to the shops if i could deal with the gawking and gossip.

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Chastity Focus

Chastity, is one of Countess Diamond’s favourite fetishes. It’s versatile, effective and accessible and best of all can be done very discreetly. Delve into one of the most teasing, yet rewarding of all the fetishes. 

Latex Focus

There is something about this material that works so well with the dungeon scene and the kink parties, its like a layer of us that we can apply or peel off, as we switch between the two worlds. But latex is as sensitive, exasperating and difficult at times as your Mistress can be.

Fetish Focus

From the basics in bondage, to exploring the darkest taboos. Here you will find all sorts of specific fetishes from the mainstream, niche and extra naughty sides of BDSM life.

Dynamics Focus

Understanding the nuanced social dynamics as well as protocol and etiquette within BDSM is never going to be easy. This narrative, from Countess Diamonds perspective is an account her of experience, thoughts and relationships and not intended to be the final word on such subjects.

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